“If I aint fu*kin a chick, I aint obligated to buy you nothing. Not even a value meal from BK.”
First things first, you have a mother… you’re not sexing her so how do men forget the logic in treating and respecting a lady the way you would expect a man to treat her. Men please learn and don’t forget your role. I take care of me but are you saying I’m gonna need to give you some in order to expect a good time or to eat something?? What in the hell are you thinking?
But let me get this straight. It’s not about money, I cud have hundreds of dollars on me and still don’t mind if your attempting to put out for me. Whether it is food or an outing. I am a woman. Play your part homie. Too many dudes are soo selfish in their ways—Men act like bitches. Point blank period.. The self-centered nagging complaining females – must be the new man. Because that’s all I come across—selfish, complaining men like someone owes them something. Ladies don’t settle, as long as we continue to settle, they will continue to treat us the way they do.
The following clip is two guys sarcastically but realistically speaking on how Men in general expect and want us to be. Sense the sarcasm but understand the Truth behind what dudes really hav in mind.
Oh my goodness…another day in the life---court drama going on--- headaches come and go—all the while Be mommy and pretend everything is okay!! That’s my typical day.
So my talk of today is why in the world women have let men get away with doing absolutely nothing- okaynot all men but I didn’t getthe memo the today’s modern man is lazy and they do whatever is minimal to achieve some sort of temporary happiness.
In the last two days I randomly have gotten questions asked about my dating life—I’m new to a job, my friends are nosey, or someone trying to hook up the single mommy. *blank Stare
I want to give up already.
One guy tells me he has the PERFECT date idea for me and the kids- in his exact words - “We can take the kids out to Chuck E Cheese and then go for a movie” -------------- Now am I wrong for literally LMAO out how he made it seem as if I’ve never taken my kids to the ((insert sarcasm here)) OH SO AMAZING CHUCK E. CHEESE and gone to watch a movie.
Then another dude says heyy well let me take you downtown to Mango’s Restaurant. It’s a cool spot with a live band and I would love to show you a good time. ---- Now okay, not so bad right? Well, issue is I’ve been plenty of times, was engaged there with my ex. And my close friend works there. Ehh, guess it’s not his fault I am not too interested in going.
Last but not least, this guy at work. Cool guy—but he is young. He has been trying for the past two weeks to take me out but let me further explain on why it hasn’t happened.He sends me a message randomly at 8 or 9 to tell me he wants to hang out. First off, if we aren’t close, I don’t “Hang”. And how rude of you to let me know that late in the day you want go somewhere. After declining because of the time this was his response:
And I quote: “I kinda like you, but I feel like I’m trying for no reason so ima fall back I don’t wanna waste your time as well as mine..I feel like you’re not interested.. I feel like I have to bend over backwards for attention from you and I’m not that kinda guy”
This was my response and brings me to the conclusion and Moral of the day:
“BEND OVER BACKWARDS? LOL You haven’t done anything? I’m sorry to be rude but you haven’t done anything requiring more attention than your getting. You don’t call or text me until you ready to make a move and just for FURTHER IMFORMATION—I like guys who bend over backwards for my attention. I am worthy of it; if you can’t handle the pressure before you’ve actually done anything, be my guest, find someone easier. :-) ”
Ladies don’t let these dudes be slackers- it is what it is. Learn your self worth.
